Par us dil ko kabhi dard na do jo tumhe pyar kare
Kyonki tum duniya ke liye koi ek ho
Par kisi ke liye tum saari duniya ho
Hello frenz, I am back with my new write-up. The topic this time is a four lettered word called LOVE. Before proceeding further, can anyone tell me what is Love? Pyar kya hota hai? Iska jawab shayad itna asaan nahin. To get the answer, you must love someone whole-heartedly ya phir koi aapse sachhe dil se pyar kare. Meri nazar mein pyar ek khoobsoorat ehsaas hai jo do rishton ko baandh kar rakhta hai.
Pyar badi hi ajeeb cheez hai.
Maa se ho to Mamta
Baap se ho to Kartavya
Bhai se ho to Dharm
Behan se ho to Farz
Aur agar biwi se ho to Chunnu, Munnu, Guddu, Pappu [:p]
Aap log samajh hi gaye honge ki mera ishara kis taraf hai[:d]. Yup you got it right, I am going to deliver my speech on love between a man and a woman.
Apne aap se shuru karta hoon. Apne pyar ki bas itni si kahani hai, Tooti hui kashti thahra hua pani hai, Na jaane kitne phool kitabon mein dum tod chuke hain, Magar kuch yaad nahi aata ke kaun se phool kiski nishani hai.[:p] Ek baar mere ek dost Akhil ne mujhse poocha ki “ Kya tumne kabhi kisi ladki se pyar kiya hai?”. Maine usse kaha “ Nahin yaar, aaj tak aisi koi ladki dikhi hi nahin jisse pyar kiya ja sake, dikhi to mili nahin, mili to janchi nahin, janchi to pati nahin, pati to baat aage badhi nahin, baat aage badhi to maine pyar kiya hi nahin” [:d]. To cut the long story short, agar koi mujhe pyar define karne bole to main sirf ye kah sakta hoon “Aaj deedar, kal yaar, parson pyar, phir ekrar, aur phir inetzaar, phir takraar, phir daraar, saari mehnat bekar, aur akhir mein ek aur devdas at beer bar!” To phir kyon pyar karke tension lena yaar, jab zindagi ke din hain char [:p].
It's so easy to think about love, to talk about love, to wish for love, but it's not always easy to recognise love, even when we hold it in our hands. Frankly speaking, aajkal ke zamane mein sachha pyar karne wale bahut kam dekhne ko milenge. Har pyar sachha nahin hota aur jo pyar sachha nahin wo pyar kahlane layak nahin. Taking the example of Hollywood actors, unke jitni jaldi shadi hoti hai utna hi jaldi breakup bhi hota hai. Unki na jaane kitni ex-wife/gf hoti hain. Budhape ka bhi koi asar nahin hota, iodex laga lagakar ex ki ginti badhate rahte hain [:p]. Can we call this true love?? No, not at all. True love happens only once. So keep experimenting unless you are sure enough that you have achieved your true love [:d].
Aajkal ke ladke aur ladkiyon ke liye ye lafz kisi mazak se kam nahin hai. “I Love You” to aise bolte hain jaise koi chhota bachhe apni maa ko bol raha ho ki “ Mummy bhook lagi hai” Unless and until you are not serious, you are not going to experience the true feeling of true love. Agar ladke ki baat karein to aajkal ke ladke dosti karte hain college wali se, pyar karte hain office wali se, flirting karte hain pados wali se, aankh ladate hain saali se, love karte hain dilwali se aur maar khate hain gharwali se [:p]. Ladkiyan bhi kam nahin hai, wo bhi ladkon se is maamle mein do haath aage hi hain. Pichle zamane ki ladkiyan kahti thee” Pahla pahla pyar hai, ankhon mein khumaar hai, aaja mere saajna tera intezaar hai” lekin aaj kal ki ladkiyan kahti hain ”Pahla pahla pyar hai, ankhon mein khumaar hai, aaja mere saajna nahin to doosra tayyar hai” [:d].
All I can say is that true love is like a pillow. You could hug it when you are in trouble. You could cry on it when you are in pain. You could embrace it when you are happy. To phir der kis baat ki??? Agar aapko bhi sachha pyar chahiye then spend Rs. 50 and buy a pillow [:p].
Aur bhi bahut cheezein lut chuki hain dil ke saath
Ye bataya doston ne ishq farmane ke baad
Is liye ab wo kamre ki ek-ek cheez check karte hain
Ek unke aane se pehle, ek unke jaane ke baad
Mere 1-2 dost bhi pyar ki gaadi mein savaar ho chuke hain. Lekin aage chalkar un sabhi ka tyre puncture ho gaya, jabki wo log petrol tank hamesha full rakhte the [:d]. Ek baar ek dost bahut mayoos dikhayee pad raha tha to maine usse poocha ki kya problem hai. To usne kaha :
“Humne bhi pyar kiya tha zindagi mein,badi josh ke saath,
Humne bhi pyar kiya tha zindagi mein,badi shor ke saath,
Ab hum pyar karenge badi soch ke saath,
Kyonki usse kal shaam ko dekha kisi aur ke saath” [:p]
If you want to test your love then let it go. If it comes back to you, its yours forever. If it dosent, then it was never meant to be. Maine notice kiya hai ki ladke ladkiyon ke khoobsoorti ke peeche bhagte hain aur ladkiyan ladkon ke personality ke peeche bhagti hain. But if you want a long term relationship then you have to live with ones character and not the beauty or personality. Har ladka chahta hai ki wo jis ladki se pyar kare, us ladki ke life mein pahla ladka ho ; aur har ladki chahti hai ki wo jis ladke se pyar kare, us ladke ke life mein wo akhri ladki ho. Why is it so?? Can you get me the answer??
Lastly, main sirf yahi kahna chahoonga ki “Pyar se tab tak pyar na karo, jab tak pyar aapse pyar na kare. Jab pyar aapse pyar kare, tab pyar se itna pyar karo ki pyar kisi aur se pyar na kare” [:)]
I would like to end today’s write-up with the following words: “Pleasure of love lasts but a moment. Pain of love lasts throughout the lifetime.”
Online Users
HTML Hit Counters
